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	<title>Comments on: How to Be More Confident</title>
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		<title>By: How to be more confident</title>
		<link>http://theconfidenceguyonline.com/2009/05/how-to-be-more-confident/comment-page-1/#comment-33010</link>
		<dc:creator>How to be more confident</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Jan 2012 00:37:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Video blog post? I love it and will shamelessly steal that idea for my own blog. :-) 
I also would add that in step one one must also have a win win mindset to be able to take on those risks.  So I try to think of any endeavor as something that will move me closer to getting what I want or learning something that will assist me in achieving my goal.  That way any opportunity is a &#039;win win&#039; as opposed to either succeeding or failing. I think that mindset is critical in the process of learning how to be more confident. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Video blog post? I love it and will shamelessly steal that idea for my own blog. <img src='http://theconfidenceguyonline.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
I also would add that in step one one must also have a win win mindset to be able to take on those risks.  So I try to think of any endeavor as something that will move me closer to getting what I want or learning something that will assist me in achieving my goal.  That way any opportunity is a &#8216;win win&#8217; as opposed to either succeeding or failing. I think that mindset is critical in the process of learning how to be more confident.</p>
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		<title>By: Get Confidence</title>
		<link>http://theconfidenceguyonline.com/2009/05/how-to-be-more-confident/comment-page-1/#comment-23146</link>
		<dc:creator>Get Confidence</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Apr 2010 19:15:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good ideas and I like the video.

Great work Steve you inspire me to get going with some videos to. Thank&#039;s
.-= Check out Get Confidence´s last blog...&lt;a href=&quot;http://getconfidence.org/04/to-get-confidence-in-business/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;To get confidence in business&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good ideas and I like the video.</p>
<p>Great work Steve you inspire me to get going with some videos to. Thank&#8217;s<br />
.-= Check out Get Confidence´s last blog&#8230;<a href="http://getconfidence.org/04/to-get-confidence-in-business/" rel="nofollow">To get confidence in business</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Steve</title>
		<link>http://theconfidenceguyonline.com/2009/05/how-to-be-more-confident/comment-page-1/#comment-6041</link>
		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 May 2009 17:01:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Rosy: You&#039;re very welcome hun.
@James: With my bald patch, rinse and repeat is just a metaphor these days...
@Chad: Not too much at all.  The key is to reframe that stuff as no big deal - as long as you think it matters it will. Say it with me - &quot;It just doesn&#039;t matter&quot;.
@Joe: The video&#039;s are a work in progress and I&#039;ll be trying a few different things out.  Thanks for the tips.
@Kate: Thanks Kate - much appreciated.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Rosy: You&#8217;re very welcome hun.<br />
@James: With my bald patch, rinse and repeat is just a metaphor these days&#8230;<br />
@Chad: Not too much at all.  The key is to reframe that stuff as no big deal &#8211; as long as you think it matters it will. Say it with me &#8211; &#8220;It just doesn&#8217;t matter&#8221;.<br />
@Joe: The video&#8217;s are a work in progress and I&#8217;ll be trying a few different things out.  Thanks for the tips.<br />
@Kate: Thanks Kate &#8211; much appreciated.</p>
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		<title>By: Maria</title>
		<link>http://theconfidenceguyonline.com/2009/05/how-to-be-more-confident/comment-page-1/#comment-5605</link>
		<dc:creator>Maria</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 09 May 2009 00:16:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nice job, Steve! Keep up the good work.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nice job, Steve! Keep up the good work.</p>
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		<title>By: Kate Elliott</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kate Elliott</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 May 2009 21:35:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Steve, couldn&#039;t believe it, i&#039;ve just got home from a great conference and we learned all about how great video posting is for marketing your services, i definately am going to do this too. Good for you for going for it, you look good and come across well.Great start.
Kate Elliott All About People</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Steve, couldn&#8217;t believe it, i&#8217;ve just got home from a great conference and we learned all about how great video posting is for marketing your services, i definately am going to do this too. Good for you for going for it, you look good and come across well.Great start.<br />
Kate Elliott All About People</p>
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		<title>By: joe</title>
		<link>http://theconfidenceguyonline.com/2009/05/how-to-be-more-confident/comment-page-1/#comment-5576</link>
		<dc:creator>joe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 May 2009 14:09:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey steve, good clarity have a couple of ideas I want to do myself but you&#039;re ahead of me on stuff. Anyway, try either writing your points on whiteboard or have graphics/text come into the screen to expand what you&#039;re talking about. Talking head gets old after a while. Light seemed to come and go..might mute light if from window.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey steve, good clarity have a couple of ideas I want to do myself but you&#8217;re ahead of me on stuff. Anyway, try either writing your points on whiteboard or have graphics/text come into the screen to expand what you&#8217;re talking about. Talking head gets old after a while. Light seemed to come and go..might mute light if from window.</p>
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		<title>By: Chad</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chad</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 May 2009 03:14:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great video blog post!  My problem is, when I do open myself up to those things in step 1, recognize what I&#039;m hiding from in step 2, take that risk in step 3...step 4.  I do laugh, but it&#039;s usually like &quot;you idiot...how stupid did you look?&quot;  I just can&#039;t seem to shake it and it causes me to not want to repeat.

I think I shared a little too much.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great video blog post!  My problem is, when I do open myself up to those things in step 1, recognize what I&#8217;m hiding from in step 2, take that risk in step 3&#8230;step 4.  I do laugh, but it&#8217;s usually like &#8220;you idiot&#8230;how stupid did you look?&#8221;  I just can&#8217;t seem to shake it and it causes me to not want to repeat.</p>
<p>I think I shared a little too much.</p>
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		<title>By: James Chartrand - Men with Pens</title>
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		<dc:creator>James Chartrand - Men with Pens</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 May 2009 20:14:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ha ha! Great first one, Steve! Check that! (And that was a good distance from the camera, good clarity, nice backdrop - how many CDs do you own?)

Rinse and repeat. Aye!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ha ha! Great first one, Steve! Check that! (And that was a good distance from the camera, good clarity, nice backdrop &#8211; how many CDs do you own?)</p>
<p>Rinse and repeat. Aye!</p>
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		<title>By: Rosy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rosy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 May 2009 19:49:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nice, Steve!!! Great tips-Thanks for sharing!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nice, Steve!!! Great tips-Thanks for sharing!</p>
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