Comments on: What do Insecure People Fear the Most?

By: Elsa7

Elsa7 — Tue, 26 Jul 2011 23:41:00 +0000

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By: Steve

Steve — Mon, 28 Jun 2010 09:40:26 +0000

@Barbara: “Merely escaping, not facing my life” – I really like that. You’re bang on, at any moment you can make a new decision – and the fact that you have that power is pretty damn amazing isn’t it? Keep on smiling Barbara, and thanks heaps for the feedback!

By: Barbara

Barbara — Sat, 26 Jun 2010 04:22:16 +0000

One more thing…that picture is really freaky!!!! (but it definitely got my attention, now I just hope I can sleep tonight!)

By: Barbara

Barbara — Sat, 26 Jun 2010 04:18:40 +0000

I think the thing we should fear the most is not doing anything at all. Yes, it is comforting and feels safe to “stand still” but I know I’m merely escaping, not facing my life. What I’ve been trying to do lately is look at the “big picture.” If you really think about it, life is fun, life is thrilling, life is meant to be lived, not something to be scared of. At any given moment we can change the course of our life and make it our own. How cool is that? What I’ve been doing lately is smiling. Whenever I’m facing a deadline or dealing with a difficult situation I stop and smile. It’s weird but it works. Another thing that makes me smile? You! I always feel better after reading your blog! As always, thanks Steve!

By: Steve

Steve — Wed, 23 Jun 2010 09:21:13 +0000

@Olivia: You and the rest of us Olivia. If we had a best friend who spoke to us the way we speak to ourselves, they wouldn’t be a best friend for very long. Take off the shackles, run barefoot through the grass and be gentle with yourself.

By: Olivia

Olivia — Tue, 22 Jun 2010 18:33:35 +0000

Great article. I have been and at times continue to be my own worst enemy. I don’t know how many times I have used accidents, mishaps, errors of judgement to unleash a torrent of personal scorn. And there is no need to do that to yourself. I mean if you reverse the role i.e. other people cause accidents, mishaps or errors of judgements, I am much less scathing on them than I am on myself. Funny really. Tuning your ear to listen objectively to these fears/ endorsements to your failure is probably the greatest lesson we humans could learn. Imagine what we would achieve without such shackles!!! With much thanks Olivia