Comments on: Made resolutions? Forget ‘em http://theconfidenceguyonline.com/2008/01/made-resolutions-forget-em/ Wired into Truly Confident Living Thu, 29 Jul 2010 21:03:15 +0100 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: Steve http://theconfidenceguyonline.com/2008/01/made-resolutions-forget-em/comment-page-1/#comment-4 Steve Thu, 10 Jan 2008 18:00:26 +0000 http://theconfidenceguyonline.com/2008/01/made-resolutions-forget-em/#comment-4 Thanks for getting back in touch Carol. I'll get back to you via email. Steve Thanks for getting back in touch Carol. I’ll get back to you via email.

Steve

]]> By: carol marshall http://theconfidenceguyonline.com/2008/01/made-resolutions-forget-em/comment-page-1/#comment-2 carol marshall Wed, 09 Jan 2008 22:45:46 +0000 http://theconfidenceguyonline.com/2008/01/made-resolutions-forget-em/#comment-2 Hi Steve, I have contacted you before, I have been having trouble since my dog died (and it shook me up to discover just how much I relied on him for company, someone to care for and something for me and my boyfriend to do and talk about!)and a friend died when she had put off retiring. I'm 45 next week and this happened 2 years ago now. I can "retire" from my current job at 50 (mental health officer status)and take a 40% cut or put it on hold, sell my house and living off the interest of the equity can do something I enjoy more, work fewer hours and take up the ou course I can't fit in now. I thought this was a good plan until my friend died, now I don't know what to do. The company I work for is poorly organised and wants a great deal of it's staff-more and more all the time. The work involves people with learning disabilities and complex health care needs, I moved from a nursing role to a management role and I really dislike managing people. The team are low paid and it's very difficult motivating them to do what is required-namely help others to live a full life under trying circumstances. I was doing ok but now the organisation want to me manage 2 houses and it's too much. I haven't had an interview for 15 years ( I moved from the nhs to this organisation with the resettlement of the service users)and I don't know what i want to do, I can't wait for 5years to leave though can I. My family and my boyfriend think I should stick it out for the money. Wow that was a lot off my chest, don't know if you can anything with it. Hi Steve,
I have contacted you before, I have been having trouble since my dog died (and it shook me up to discover just how much I relied on him for company, someone to care for and something for me and my boyfriend to do and talk about!)and a friend died when she had put off retiring. I’m 45 next week and this happened 2 years ago now. I can “retire” from my current job at 50 (mental health officer status)and take a 40% cut or put it on hold, sell my house and living off the interest of the equity can do something I enjoy more, work fewer hours and take up the ou course I can’t fit in now. I thought this was a good plan until my friend died, now I don’t know what to do. The company I work for is poorly organised and wants a great deal of it’s staff-more and more all the time. The work involves people with learning disabilities and complex health care needs, I moved from a nursing role to a management role and I really dislike managing people. The team are low paid and it’s very difficult motivating them to do what is required-namely help others to live a full life under trying circumstances. I was doing ok but now the organisation want to me manage 2 houses and it’s too much. I haven’t had an interview for 15 years ( I moved from the nhs to this organisation with the resettlement of the service users)and I don’t know what i want to do, I can’t wait for 5years to leave though can I.
My family and my boyfriend think I should stick it out for the money.
Wow that was a lot off my chest, don’t know if you can anything with it.

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