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Jul 03

Hi, thanks for stopping by.

I’d love you to get in touch to let me know about what’s happening with you, the struggles you’re facing and the battles you’re fighting.

I’m no longer hanging out here so the best way to get in touch is over at my new site, which is all about building confidence and putting your dent in the universe, or by getting in touch via the methods below:

the best way to get in touch is via email to steve@thecoec.com.

Email

Drop me a line on steve at the confidenceguyonline dot com, and I’ll do my level best to get back to you as soon as possible.  Might take a couple of days, but I always like to reply personally with a little bit of thought.

Twitter

Get me on Twitter at @SteveErrey or follow me here.

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Jul 21

Don't let them put you down

I stumbled across a Flickr group full of “The Way I See It” mugs from Starbucks, and this particular image rang a lot of bells.

I get heaps of emails from people asking me about how they can be confident enough to deal with people who put them down and it’s one of the biggest ways people find my blog.  This quotation says it all.

Pay attention to it.

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May 14

Don’t ever think that you need to put up with being put down or made to feel small. You deserve better.

You.  Deserve.  Better.

If you’re being put down or made to feel small you’ll know how it hurts.

It especially hurts when you’re being put down by someone who should be supporting you, perhaps even celebrating you.   Maybe you’ve stopped by because you realise you’re paying a hefty price for being put down – you’re feeling like you don’t have options; you’re self-esteem has taken a hit; you’ve lost confidence in yourself; you’re feeling powerless to change things.

You’re not alone.  I’ve worked with people in similar situations – watch the video below to hear what I think about it…

What is “Staying Up When You’re Put Down”?

Maybe you’ve tried to fix the situation and it ended up escalating into a row or making you feel worse, or maybe you just don’t know how to start changing things.

No problem. I’ve coached people who’ve been suffering and struggling because of hurtful put-downs, and these people have risen out of it and no longer have to put up with this kind of treatment. They’re free to experience life and relationships in the way that we all deserve.

Imagine if you could rise out of the situation you’re in and see an end to the hurtful put-downs. Imagine if you had such a strong sense of who you are and what you have that other people automatically started treating you with respect and appreciation.

I’ve taken the same strategies, exercises and insights that I use with my one-on-one clients and put them all right here, for you. The approach I’ve come up with gets you back to a strong sense of your own identity, your own needs and your own priorities. You’ll be able to figure out why you’ve been putting up with this kind of behaviour and what you can do to turn the corner and transform the problem relationship. The eBook contains the full approach, with nothing left out.

By the end of this eBook you’ll have everything you need to change things for the better. And you’ll already be experiencing the benefits.

You get instant access to the PDF, containing 45 pages packed with specific and actionable strategies for building up your natural self-confidence again, and the 9 step by step worksheets take you gently through everything you need to know.

And it’s just $27.00.

Afraid to Rock the Boat?

What if you make things worse by trying to change things?  What if you say something and it blows up in your face?  How do you even start?

Yes, this is scary stuff.  I get that it feels like any move you make could make the situation worse, and you might be thinking that you’re powerless to do anything.  That’s exactly why my approach gently gives you the tools you need to do this in a way that works for you, not against you.

I’m not going to ask you to become someone you’re not, that’s not my style and it’s not what my approach is about. What I will show you is how you can find and use your natural self-confidence to live the kind of life you know you deserve.

So, the question you need to ask yourself is whether you deserve to continue to be treated badly and to suffer the consequences, or if you deserve better.

The Freedom Guarantee

The no-BS guaranteeThis eBook comes with a 90-day 100% satisfaction guarantee.

The people I’ve coached through this have come out of it stronger, more confident and more capable than ever. That’s how I know this can help.

But if you go through the all the material, complete all the worksheets and still aren’t happy with your decision, just ask for a refund. No BS.

Just click the button below to pick up your copy and you can make a start right away.

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Once your payment is approved, you’ll be taken to the download page where you download the eBook right away.

Let me know how you get on, and just holler if I can be of any help.

Have fun, learn lots

P.S. If there’s one thing holding you back from buying the eBook it’ll because you’re scared.  Scared of making the wrong choice. Scared of changing things. Trust me when I say that you deserve better.  Click here to pick up your copy.

P.P.S. Remember, your purchase is 100% guaranteed. Either you love it, or send it back for a full refund.

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Apr 13

Get the new PlaybookI mentioned in my last post that I was putting the finishing touches to something that completes the Code of Extraordinary Change, and I’m over the moon to tell you that it’s done and ready.

So I’d like to introduce you to the Code of Extraordinary Change Playbook.

You can see what the Playbook is and what it does below, but I want you to have 2 things right away:

  1. A sample chapter of the Playbook (get it right now by clicking this link).
  2. A 50% discount on the cost of the Playbook.  Until midnight on Sunday 15th April I want you to be able to get your copy of the Playbook at a hefty 50% off.  That’s one hell of a bang for your buck, and it won’t be repeated.

What is it and what’s in it for me?

The Playbook is the ultimate universe-denting guide; giving you time-tested insights, exercises, ideas, structures and strategies to crack life wide open.  It combines everything I’ve learned from a decade of coaching along with some of the latest findings from the extraordinary field of neuroscience, along with a heap of feedback about what was good and bad about what I was doing and how I was doing it.

Its 136 pages, 8 chapters and 30 worksheets are aimed at unburdening you of the things that weigh you down and hold you back and equipping you with the things that move you, drive you and make you a force of nature.  It’s all here in the Playbook.

I may be a little biased here, but I reckon this is pretty flippin’ brilliant.  I’m honestly thrilled with what’s in the Playbook and I know it can make a big difference if you let it.

Here’s how to use your 50% discount:

  1. Go to the Playbook page by clicking here or on the book cover.
  2. Click the “Add to cart” button if you’re ready.
  3. On the cart screen, enter the discount code play50 and click “Update cart”.
  4. That’s it; you’ve just saved $98 and can get going right away.

Drop me a line if you have any questions or problems, and don’t forget that the 50% offer runs out at midnight on April 15th!

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Mar 26
Extraordin

Extraordin-Errey - geddit?!

After over 12 months of planning, writing, wrangling, sweating and decision-making, The Code of Extraordinary Change is open.

I hope you like it : )

I gotta say that I’m a lot more nervous than I expected to be, but they’re good “This is gonna be great” nerves, you know?!  The COEC isn’t something that I built for me; it’s not a vanity project, something for my ego to wallow in or even something that’s “finished”.  I built it because I want you to put your dent in the universe and because I want to offer a helping hand when you need it.  And, a little like Goldilocks, that means that I want it to be “just right”.

So whether or not you know what kind of dent you want to make; whether or not you’re on the road to doing what matters to you, or whether or not you feel like you could ever put your dent in the universe – there’s something over at The Code of Extraordinary Change for you.  And there always will be.

Something I didn’t have time for…

Since I started The Confidence Guy I’ve had a lot of feedback from people that’s been worth its weight in gold.  So a huge thank you to everyone here who’s commented or emailed – I’ve listened to and appreciated every single word.  Mix that up with feedback from people I’ve worked with and everything else I’ve learned since I started coaching, and that’s a lot of seriously good stuff.

The result of all that is something I’ve been working on for 18 months; and this final piece of the The Code of Extraordinary Change is going through the finessing machine as we speak to make sure it comes out extra-shiny and extra-special.  I’ll let you know more about it very soon.

In the meantime, I’d love you to head over to the COEC to see what’s going on over there.

The world needs your kind of extraordinary.

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Mar 22

Time waits for no man, and the winner of the Extraordinary Bundle of Beautiful Things will be picked at random on Monday 26th March, to coincide with the launch of the Code of Extraordinary Change.

If you’ve already pre-registered then you’re all set; I hope you win (I’d love to win, but sadly have ruled myself ineligible!).  Otherwise, you’ve got a little bit of time left to get involved and enter the give-away. You could win:

  • a handmade leather Moleskine cover, engraved with “Sing in Me Muse”, the gorgeous and unique artwork from the design team at Tinder + Sparks.
  • a signed copy of Karen Walrond‘s beautiful book, “The Beauty of Different”.
  • Ingrid Michaelson’s new CD – “Human Again”, signed by Ingrid herself.
  • A signed copy of the butt-kicking and simply awesome “Do The Work” from the brilliant Steven Pressfield.
  • “You Are Lovely” – a signed print from the talented illustrator Jen Renninger.
  • The soulful “Fortunes”, from the extraordinary Jen Lee.
  • A signed copy of the heart-warming, funny and gorgeous book “Some Kind of Ride” by Brian Andreas.
  • Your very own tin of Omnipotence (yes, really), from my good friends at the Brooklyn Superhero Supply Company.
  • 2 signed CD’s (“Being Brave” and “As I Am”) from the hugely talented Karen Jacobsen.
  • Your very own “Go Dent the Universe” t-shirt. Very cool.

Each of these things is just gorgeous, so it’s quite the collection.  And of course, pre-registering also makes sure you have access to all of the members-only content (including free monthly calls where I’ll help you put your dent in the universe and video interviews with some amazing people who’ve created extraordinary things).

I’m dead excited and more than a little nervous I am about all of this – I’ve worked my cotton socks off to make sure the Code of Extraordinary Change blows your socks off.  (There’s been a lot of sock action, for sure).
Pre-register
So head over to the The Code of Extraordinary and get involved; the world needs your kind of extraordinary.

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Mar 14

The Code of Extraordinary Change
I made a fundamental mistake here at The Confidence Guy.  I was focused on helping people build up their self-confidence, but I’d never answered the basic question “Why?” Why spend all that time and effort on getting somewhere, when you have no clue as to what to do when you get there?

I stopped what I was doing, took a big step back and started answering the question.  I realised one important thing – that confidence alone is like a single child in an empty room at their 8th Birthday party.  No fun at all.  And I came to see that there’s only one reason to have a core of self-confidence.

To put a you-shaped dent in the universe.

So I’ve built something that does 2 things:

  1. Creates a tipping point where you feel ready, willing and moved to get out there and do what matters to you.
  2. Guides you through that tipping point (and beyond) so you can put a meaningful dent in the universe.

I call it The Code Of Extraordinary Change.

Picture it.

You’re at a point where you’re unburdened of the things that hold you back.
You’re equipped with everything that makes you a force of nature.
You know you can deal with whatever life throws at you.
You understand what really matters to you and recognise what doesn’t.
You trust yourself completely to make awesome decisions.

I think that’s pretty damn extraordinary, and that’s what the Code of Extraordinary Change does.

It’s launching on March 26th, and I would be totally thrilled to have you come over and visit : )

Win An Extraordinary Bundle of Beautiful Things

With the launch of The Code of Extraordinary Change coming up fast, I want to give you something. When you pre-register on the site you’ll not only gain access to the members-only content at launch time, but you can win an Extraordinary Bundle of Beautiful Things.

I’ve gathered together a bundle of things that I consider to be unique, beautiful and extraordinary, and I’ll give the whole lot away to one person (selected at random) who pre-registers from now until 26th March.

This bundle includes a handmade leather Moleskine cover engraved with totally unique and gorgeous artwork, a signed copy of Karen Walrond’s beautiful book “The Beauty of Different”, a signed copy of Ingrid Michaelson’s new CD “Human Again”, your very own “Go Dent the Universe” t-shirt and a whole heap more (you can see everything in the Bundle over at the COEC).

The Code of Extraordinary Change is all about making a meaningful difference, and both the members-only content and the Extraordinary Bundle represent that spirit.

So head over to the The Code of Extraordinary and get involved; the world needs your kind of extraordinary.

Pre-register

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Mar 14

The Code of Extraordinary Change
I made a fundamental mistake here at The Confidence Guy.  I was focused on helping people build up their self-confidence, but I’d never answered the basic question “Why?” Why spend all that time and effort on getting somewhere, when you have no clue as to what to do when you get there?

I stopped what I was doing, took a big step back and started answering the question.  I realised one important thing – that confidence alone is like a single child in an empty room at their 8th Birthday party.  No fun at all.  And I came to see that there’s only one reason to have a core of self-confidence.

To put a you-shaped dent in the universe.

So I’ve built something that does 2 things:

  1. Creates a tipping point where you feel ready, willing and moved to get out there and do what matters to you.
  2. Guides you through that tipping point (and beyond) so you can put a meaningful dent in the universe.

I call it The Code Of Extraordinary Change.

Picture it.

You’re at a point where you’re unburdened of the things that hold you back.
You’re equipped with everything that makes you a force of nature.
You know you can deal with whatever life throws at you.
You understand what really matters to you and recognise what doesn’t.
You trust yourself completely to make awesome decisions.

I think that’s pretty damn extraordinary, and that’s what the Code of Extraordinary Change does.

It’s launching on March 26th, and I would be totally thrilled to have you come over and visit : )

Win An Extraordinary Bundle of Beautiful Things

With the launch of The Code of Extraordinary Change coming up fast, I want to give you something. When you pre-register on the site you’ll not only gain access to the members-only content at launch time, but you can win an Extraordinary Bundle of Beautiful Things.

I’ve gathered together a bundle of things that I consider to be unique, beautiful and extraordinary, and I’ll give the whole lot away to one person (selected at random) who pre-registers from now until 26th March.

This bundle includes a handmade leather Moleskine cover engraved with totally unique and gorgeous artwork, a signed copy of Karen Walrond’s beautiful book “The Beauty of Different”, a signed copy of Ingrid Michaelson’s new CD “Human Again”, your very own “Go Dent the Universe” t-shirt and a whole heap more (you can see everything in the Bundle over at the COEC).

The Code of Extraordinary Change is all about making a meaningful difference, and both the members-only content and the Extraordinary Bundle represent that spirit.

So head over to the The Code of Extraordinary and get involved; the world needs your kind of extraordinary.

Pre-register

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Mar 13

The Code of Extraordinary Change
I made a fundamental mistake here at The Confidence Guy.  I was focused on helping people build up their self-confidence, but I’d never answered the basic question “Why?” Why spend all that time and effort on getting somewhere, when you have no clue as to what to do when you get there?

I stopped what I was doing, took a big step back and started answering the question.  I realised one important thing – that confidence alone is like a single child in an empty room at their 8th Birthday party.  No fun at all.  And I came to see that there’s only one reason to have a core of self-confidence.

To put a you-shaped dent in the universe.

So I’ve built something that does 2 things:

  1. Creates a tipping point where you feel ready, willing and moved to get out there and do what matters to you.
  2. Guides you through that tipping point (and beyond) so you can put a meaningful dent in the universe.

I call it The Code Of Extraordinary Change.

Picture it.

You’re at a point where you’re unburdened of the things that hold you back.
You’re equipped with everything that makes you a force of nature.
You know you can deal with whatever life throws at you.
You understand what really matters to you and recognise what doesn’t.
You trust yourself completely to make awesome decisions.

I think that’s pretty damn extraordinary, and that’s what the Code of Extraordinary Change does.

It’s launching on March 26th, and I would be totally thrilled to have you come over and visit : )

Win An Extraordinary Bundle of Beautiful Things

With the launch of The Code of Extraordinary Change coming up fast, I want to give you something. When you pre-register on the site you’ll not only gain access to the members-only content at launch time, but you can win an Extraordinary Bundle of Beautiful Things.

I’ve gathered together a bundle of things that I consider to be unique, beautiful and extraordinary, and I’ll give the whole lot away to one person (selected at random) who pre-registers from now until 26th March.

This bundle includes a handmade leather Moleskine cover engraved with totally unique and gorgeous artwork, a signed copy of Karen Walrond’s beautiful book “The Beauty of Different”, a signed copy of Ingrid Michaelson’s new CD “Human Again”, your very own “Go Dent the Universe” t-shirt and a whole heap more (you can see everything in the Bundle over at the COEC).

The Code of Extraordinary Change is all about making a meaningful difference, and both the members-only content and the Extraordinary Bundle represent that spirit.

So head over to the The Code of Extraordinary and get involved; the world needs your kind of extraordinary.

Pre-register

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Mar 10

The Code of Extraordinary Change
I made a fundamental mistake here at The Confidence Guy.  I was focused on helping people build up their self-confidence, but I’d never answered the basic question “Why?” Why spend all that time and effort on getting somewhere, when you have no clue as to what to do when you get there?

I stopped what I was doing, took a big step back and started answering the question.  I realised one important thing – that confidence alone is like a single child in an empty room at their 8th Birthday party.  No fun at all.  And I came to see that there’s only one reason to have a core of self-confidence.

To put a you-shaped dent in the universe.

So I’ve built something that does 2 things:

  1. Creates a tipping point where you feel ready, willing and moved to get out there and do what matters to you.
  2. Guides you through that tipping point (and beyond) so you can put a meaningful dent in the universe.

I call it The Code Of Extraordinary Change.

Picture it.

You’re at a point where you’re unburdened of the things that hold you back.
You’re equipped with everything that makes you a force of nature.
You know you can deal with whatever life throws at you.
You understand what really matters to you and recognise what doesn’t.
You trust yourself completely to make awesome decisions.

I think that’s pretty damn extraordinary, and that’s what the Code of Extraordinary Change does.

It’s launching on March 26th, and I would be totally thrilled to have you come over and visit : )

Win An Extraordinary Bundle of Beautiful Things

With the launch of The Code of Extraordinary Change coming up fast, I want to give you something. When you pre-register on the site you’ll not only gain access to the members-only content at launch time, but you can win an Extraordinary Bundle of Beautiful Things.

I’ve gathered together a bundle of things that I consider to be unique, beautiful and extraordinary, and I’ll give the whole lot away to one person (selected at random) who pre-registers from now until 26th March.

This bundle includes a handmade leather Moleskine cover engraved with totally unique and gorgeous artwork, a signed copy of Karen Walrond’s beautiful book “The Beauty of Different”, a signed copy of Ingrid Michaelson’s new CD “Human Again”, your very own “Go Dent the Universe” t-shirt and a whole heap more (you can see everything in the Bundle over at the COEC).

The Code of Extraordinary Change is all about making a meaningful difference, and both the members-only content and the Extraordinary Bundle represent that spirit.

So head over to the The Code of Extraordinary and get involved; the world needs your kind of extraordinary.

Pre-register

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