Aug 08
- You’ll Get More Done.
Procrastination is making choices from a place of apathy and disconnection – you put things off because you can’t be bothered or because you can’t see the pay-off in doing something. True confidence is being plugged into what matters and knowing that there’s a pay-off in whatever you do. True confidence is about making choices that serve you well, not about making excuses for what might not work. - You’ll Worry Less.
Worrying forces you to look at all the reasons you can’t, won’t or shouldn’t do something, and chips away at your self-confidence and self-esteem. Having greater inner confidence makes it easier to get on without worrying whether things will work out or not – you simply trust yourself to deal with whatever happens. - You’ll Be More Attractive.
It’s widely acknowledged that confident people are sexier and more attractive. People sub-consciously pick up on nuances of behaviour, so if you’re a big bag of doubt, fear and low self-esteem people will see that and behave accordingly. Real inner confidence is about having a sense of ease, congruence and acceptance – and that’s something that people always find attractive. - You’ll Have Better Relationships
Having true confidence means that you can engage with people without worrying about them judging you or how they perceive you. Whether it’s relationships at work, at home, with friends, strangers, partners or loved ones, real confidence in relationships means being able to contribute the best parts of you without getting trapped in game playing or self-doubt. - You’ll Have More Fun.
True confidence means that you’re plugged into what matters in your life, and it comes with a sense of lightness and fun. Being more confident frees you up to enjoy what you’re doing and allows you to spend more of your time having fun, whatever you’re doing. - You’ll Master Your Fears
Fear is the number one thing that holds you back, and letting your fears make your choices for you is sure to shrink your confidence, your life and your sense of self. With true confidence comes an implicit trust that you’ll be okay no matter what, like a comfort blanket. That makes it so much easier to recognise the fears that are holding you back and get going in spite of them. - You’ll Take Better Care of Yourself
Real inner confidence means that you’ll know when it’s time to prioritise taking care of yourself. That’s not being selfish, it’s being practical. You only have so much energy and it’s up to you to keep yourself topped up, otherwise you’ll be running on empty. Real confidence lets you see where you’re pouring your energy down the drain and gives you the choice about what you say ‘No’ to and what you say ‘Yes’ to. - You’ll Make Yourself Heard
Ever been in a meeting where things were said that you had a valid point of view on, but you didn’t speak up? Ever been in a situation where you didn’t stand up for yourself and you kicked yourself later? Real confidence is being able to have a conversation and voice your opinion when it’s important for you to do so, regardless of how scary it might be. - You’ll make More Connections
Your network is a vital piece of achieving continued success in today’s world, so meeting people and making connections is a key skill to master. The good news is that meeting people and networking is much easier and completely pain-free when you have genuine confidence. With true confidence you’ll be meeting, greeting, shaking hands, offering help, exchanging numbers and filling your network with the people you need.
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- Confidence is Sexy – Fact
