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	<title>Comments on: Do You Have Enough Spirit to Give All Year?</title>
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		<title>By: Brett Legree</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brett Legree</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Dec 2008 14:53:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Steve,

I think most people would, or I hope they would.  I didn&#039;t really even think about it, and then later when I realized that was all I had, I thought &quot;so what, I helped someone who needed it more&quot;.

I guess one way to start the &quot;cloning program&quot; is for us to lead by example - others will pick up the torch.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Steve,</p>
<p>I think most people would, or I hope they would.  I didn&#8217;t really even think about it, and then later when I realized that was all I had, I thought &#8220;so what, I helped someone who needed it more&#8221;.</p>
<p>I guess one way to start the &#8220;cloning program&#8221; is for us to lead by example &#8211; others will pick up the torch.</p>
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		<title>By: Steve</title>
		<link>http://theconfidenceguyonline.com/2008/12/spirit-give-year/comment-page-1/#comment-1842</link>
		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Dec 2008 20:07:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@James: Amazes me too fella, although to be honest I don&#039;t have it all cracked yet myself. I think what makes the difference is knowing that you can spot and deal with the insecurities and fears when they come up.  Every month I learn more ways to handle them.

@Brett: I love that giving can be as simple as holding a door open, smiling at someone or offering up a seat.

Your experience with the guy who lost his sight brings it home how lucky most of us are, and I&#039;d love to think that most people would spend their lunch money on a donation if they were in the same situation.  Sadly, that&#039;s not the case.  We need to clone you Brett.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@James: Amazes me too fella, although to be honest I don&#8217;t have it all cracked yet myself. I think what makes the difference is knowing that you can spot and deal with the insecurities and fears when they come up.  Every month I learn more ways to handle them.</p>
<p>@Brett: I love that giving can be as simple as holding a door open, smiling at someone or offering up a seat.</p>
<p>Your experience with the guy who lost his sight brings it home how lucky most of us are, and I&#8217;d love to think that most people would spend their lunch money on a donation if they were in the same situation.  Sadly, that&#8217;s not the case.  We need to clone you Brett.</p>
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		<title>By: Brett Legree</title>
		<link>http://theconfidenceguyonline.com/2008/12/spirit-give-year/comment-page-1/#comment-1831</link>
		<dc:creator>Brett Legree</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Dec 2008 00:22:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>James is right - we can overcome the fear, and once you get that one positive response, you could get a million neutral or negative responses and it still wouldn&#039;t matter.  Because really, if you reach out to help someone each and every day, things as simple as holding a door or asking them how their day is really, truly going, you&#039;ll get so much more back.

Probably most of us are quite lucky and don&#039;t know how lucky we are.

Today I didn&#039;t eat lunch, because I didn&#039;t have any money on me.  Well, I did when I left home, but someone was coming around at work asking for donations for one of the workers at my company.  He had just lost his sight last week (it had been degenerating for some time) and I know him personally, so I reached into my pocket and grabbed what I had.  Turned out I didn&#039;t have any more money later on for lunch, and there&#039;s no bank machines where I work.

You know what, it didn&#039;t matter.  I guess I could have borrowed some from someone else but I thought, &quot;not today&quot;.  My turn to give again, because someday I might need help.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>James is right &#8211; we can overcome the fear, and once you get that one positive response, you could get a million neutral or negative responses and it still wouldn&#8217;t matter.  Because really, if you reach out to help someone each and every day, things as simple as holding a door or asking them how their day is really, truly going, you&#8217;ll get so much more back.</p>
<p>Probably most of us are quite lucky and don&#8217;t know how lucky we are.</p>
<p>Today I didn&#8217;t eat lunch, because I didn&#8217;t have any money on me.  Well, I did when I left home, but someone was coming around at work asking for donations for one of the workers at my company.  He had just lost his sight last week (it had been degenerating for some time) and I know him personally, so I reached into my pocket and grabbed what I had.  Turned out I didn&#8217;t have any more money later on for lunch, and there&#8217;s no bank machines where I work.</p>
<p>You know what, it didn&#8217;t matter.  I guess I could have borrowed some from someone else but I thought, &#8220;not today&#8221;.  My turn to give again, because someday I might need help.</p>
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		<title>By: James Chartrand - Men with Pens</title>
		<link>http://theconfidenceguyonline.com/2008/12/spirit-give-year/comment-page-1/#comment-1830</link>
		<dc:creator>James Chartrand - Men with Pens</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Dec 2008 17:29:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It constantly amazes me how many people let their insecurities and fears get in the way of being better people. Not only for the benefit of others, but also for themselves.

Fear can be conquered. We hold ourselves back with the silliest insecurities. It can be changed.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It constantly amazes me how many people let their insecurities and fears get in the way of being better people. Not only for the benefit of others, but also for themselves.</p>
<p>Fear can be conquered. We hold ourselves back with the silliest insecurities. It can be changed.</p>
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