Comments on: Life Purpose is Nothing Without Confidence http://theconfidenceguyonline.com/2009/03/life-purpose-confidence/ Wired into Truly Confident Living Thu, 29 Jul 2010 21:03:15 +0100 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: 10 ways to boldly market yourself. | intersected http://theconfidenceguyonline.com/2009/03/life-purpose-confidence/comment-page-1/#comment-3439 10 ways to boldly market yourself. | intersected Mon, 23 Mar 2009 00:14:14 +0000 http://theconfidenceguyonline.com/?p=1419#comment-3439 [...] when you’re striving for boldness, the more clear the goal, the better chance you have at being noticed. How to Cultivate It: Most of you have a good idea of what your goals are, so just specify them. [...] [...] when you’re striving for boldness, the more clear the goal, the better chance you have at being noticed. How to Cultivate It: Most of you have a good idea of what your goals are, so just specify them. [...]

]]> By: Jay http://theconfidenceguyonline.com/2009/03/life-purpose-confidence/comment-page-1/#comment-3406 Jay Sat, 21 Mar 2009 16:31:09 +0000 http://theconfidenceguyonline.com/?p=1419#comment-3406 Great stuff and thanks for the link and praise. The problem we so often have is our ego gets in the way. It did for me! Helping people is not a life purpose, it needs to be much bigger than that right? Nope, it can be simple and to the point. We are in this together, so we can look all we want but helping people might very well be the purpose for us all! Great stuff and thanks for the link and praise. The problem we so often have is our ego gets in the way. It did for me! Helping people is not a life purpose, it needs to be much bigger than that right? Nope, it can be simple and to the point. We are in this together, so we can look all we want but helping people might very well be the purpose for us all!

]]> By: Steve http://theconfidenceguyonline.com/2009/03/life-purpose-confidence/comment-page-1/#comment-3392 Steve Fri, 20 Mar 2009 19:04:45 +0000 http://theconfidenceguyonline.com/?p=1419#comment-3392 @Jun: Man, how come I haven't discovered you before now? Confidence does take work, you're right (check out an upcoming post about that), but I honestly believe that every single one of us is born with it. Love that interview with Jamie and you both come across brilliantly - I'm gonna drop you an email separately to connect in more detail. @Jun: Man, how come I haven’t discovered you before now? Confidence does take work, you’re right (check out an upcoming post about that), but I honestly believe that every single one of us is born with it.

Love that interview with Jamie and you both come across brilliantly – I’m gonna drop you an email separately to connect in more detail.

]]> By: Jun Loayza http://theconfidenceguyonline.com/2009/03/life-purpose-confidence/comment-page-1/#comment-3390 Jun Loayza Fri, 20 Mar 2009 18:19:03 +0000 http://theconfidenceguyonline.com/?p=1419#comment-3390 Confidence is difficult to gain if you're not naturally born with it. However, I do feel it is possible. In high school, I was the shy kid. I couldn't talk to girls and my voice always shook when presenting to the class. The reason I'm more confident now is because I worked my ass of trying to become a knowledgeable, valuable person and have put myself in positions where I have to publicly speak. I saw that you're good friends with Jamie. Check out the video interview I did with her. <a href="http://awesome.viralogy.com/blogger/jamie-varon-twitter-should-hire-me/" rel="nofollow">You can see the video here.</a> Let me know what you think! - Jun Confidence is difficult to gain if you’re not naturally born with it. However, I do feel it is possible.

In high school, I was the shy kid. I couldn’t talk to girls and my voice always shook when presenting to the class.

The reason I’m more confident now is because I worked my ass of trying to become a knowledgeable, valuable person and have put myself in positions where I have to publicly speak.

I saw that you’re good friends with Jamie. Check out the video interview I did with her. You can see the video here.

Let me know what you think!

- Jun

]]> By: Steve http://theconfidenceguyonline.com/2009/03/life-purpose-confidence/comment-page-1/#comment-3369 Steve Tue, 17 Mar 2009 21:01:23 +0000 http://theconfidenceguyonline.com/?p=1419#comment-3369 @Jamie: We're always our worst enemy - just imagine having a best friend who tells you the things you tell yourself... You're right though, having confidence means that life will get get scary out of your own doing. The key is having it be scary <i>and</i> exciting. I've touched on it before, but I'll give it some extra thought - look out for it and thanks! @Jamie: We’re always our worst enemy – just imagine having a best friend who tells you the things you tell yourself… You’re right though, having confidence means that life will get get scary out of your own doing. The key is having it be scary and exciting. I’ve touched on it before, but I’ll give it some extra thought – look out for it and thanks!

]]> By: Jamie http://theconfidenceguyonline.com/2009/03/life-purpose-confidence/comment-page-1/#comment-3364 Jamie Tue, 17 Mar 2009 16:06:45 +0000 http://theconfidenceguyonline.com/?p=1419#comment-3364 Our minds seem to be our greatest enemy when it comes to bold action. The rational part of ourselves would never do anything gutsy and I understand why. For example, this past week may have seemed like an exciting one, but I was also nerve-wracked the entire time. It IS uncomfortable to put yourself out there, it turns out. It IS scary. But, it's also extremely rewarding. I think, if you haven't already, you should write a blog post about how confidence is not a walk in the park... it's scary sometimes and that doesn't take away from your confidence, it only secures that you are doing the right thing. =) What do you think? Our minds seem to be our greatest enemy when it comes to bold action. The rational part of ourselves would never do anything gutsy and I understand why.

For example, this past week may have seemed like an exciting one, but I was also nerve-wracked the entire time. It IS uncomfortable to put yourself out there, it turns out. It IS scary. But, it’s also extremely rewarding.

I think, if you haven’t already, you should write a blog post about how confidence is not a walk in the park… it’s scary sometimes and that doesn’t take away from your confidence, it only secures that you are doing the right thing. =) What do you think?

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