Comments on: QA: My Manager Has Stripped My Confidence http://theconfidenceguyonline.com/2009/05/manager-low-confidence/ Wired into Truly Confident Living Thu, 29 Jul 2010 21:03:15 +0100 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: Michael Vanderdonk http://theconfidenceguyonline.com/2009/05/manager-low-confidence/comment-page-1/#comment-5376 Michael Vanderdonk Tue, 05 May 2009 00:03:55 +0000 http://theconfidenceguyonline.com/?p=1686#comment-5376 A job situation like that can be soul destroying, not only making work no longer fun, but also effecting the rest of your life. To expand a little on your first point - the boss is likely feeling unsettled and not at all confident. If, being confident yourself, you have a heart to heart with the boss to discover what else you can do to help them, make them more confident, and relieve the pressure that's on them. This in turn flows back and helps you. A job situation like that can be soul destroying, not only making work no longer fun, but also effecting the rest of your life.

To expand a little on your first point – the boss is likely feeling unsettled and not at all confident. If, being confident yourself, you have a heart to heart with the boss to discover what else you can do to help them, make them more confident, and relieve the pressure that’s on them. This in turn flows back and helps you.

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