Mar 04
Here’s a little video post that, besides offering a key strategy for building confidence and having more fun, could make you either smile or throw-up.
So what would you love to say “What the Hell” to? What have you just said “What the Hell” to, and what happened?
- Other articles you might like:
- How to Be More Confident
- Useful confidence & self-esteem articles
- QA: Getting over a painful past


March 7th, 2010 at 11:06 am
FANTASTIC…had me rolling around on the floor. After all these years did not know you looked so cute from behind! xx
March 7th, 2010 at 11:44 am
@Marna: Lol, should I have got a butt double?
March 8th, 2010 at 9:34 am
I love you, man! It is Monday, I am at the office, starting a day, starting a week, and just saw the post. I was laughing so hard. It was good I was alone in the office at that time.
Can’t hide a smile anymore.
Love your posts.
March 8th, 2010 at 11:51 am
@Irena: Laughing with me and not *at* me I hope… Glad I could make you smile on a Monday morning!
March 8th, 2010 at 1:58 pm
Sweet “cheeks” and great message.
March 8th, 2010 at 4:53 pm
@Kathleen: Just read that as “great massage” – yes please. You gonna say What the Hell to something?
March 9th, 2010 at 3:19 pm
Funny? Totally!!
Thought provoking? That, too.
LOL! Then stopped to almost cry at missed opportunities in my life…
I’m adopting this as my new attitude! “What the hell!”
March 10th, 2010 at 7:06 pm
What the hell…was that?
A lot of effort. somewhat self-absorbed.
But true. You could also just say “go for it”.
March 10th, 2010 at 9:22 pm
@Nancy: Just don’t do anything illegal, it doesn’t apply to stealing cars ;P
March 10th, 2010 at 9:23 pm
@moo: Could have said “go for it”, for sure, there’s a ring about “What the hell” I kinda like though. Self-absorbed? Moi?
March 12th, 2010 at 12:02 am
OMG, Steve! Priceless! Powerful message and an absolutely freakin’ brilliant (and hysterical) ending. LOVE it!
I co-facilitate the Rich, Happy & Hot Virtual Mastery program with Marie Forleo. It’s a group coaching program for women entrepreneurs that blends living in the moment with biz building. I’m going to send all our fab peeps over here to check out your vid. They’ve simply got to see it.
March 12th, 2010 at 12:27 am
Love it! Priceless ending, and awesome message!
March 12th, 2010 at 10:17 pm
Wow in every way!
March 13th, 2010 at 3:17 pm
@Lisa: Awesome, thanks so much. Sounds like we might have a synergy in what we’re both doing – let’s keep in touch!
@Amanda: Good of you to stop by and comment, don’t be a stranger!
@Barbara: Thanks Barbara, really appreciate that.
March 18th, 2010 at 12:16 pm
Steve that was superb! I have enjoyed your posts for years but that one REALLY made me laugh!:-) Unforgettable way to convey a great message. Thanks:-)
March 22nd, 2010 at 4:03 pm
Love the face expressions! Just what I needed to wake myself up!!!!! Thank you so very much!
March 22nd, 2010 at 5:06 pm
@Amanda: Thanks m’dear – happy to put a smile on your face ;D
@Dale: I have nimble features, thanks for watching Dale!
April 9th, 2010 at 3:15 pm
[...] Here’s a creative video that both informs and entertains. It’s get a tad risque at the end, which makes it all the more memorable. After you watch this, ask yourself if you could do something as creative, bold and entertaining to get your message out to folks. From The Confidence Guy. [...]
April 9th, 2010 at 4:43 pm
That was great!

You did an awesome job with this video.
Kyle
April 11th, 2010 at 1:12 pm
@Kyle: Thanks man, appreciate the feedback!
April 19th, 2010 at 6:58 pm
I got a great laugh, after taking in all the serious advice on your huge cards… Well done Steve, what a perfect ending!
Check out Sandra Hendricks´s last blog…How the Law of Attraction Can Help and Hinder You!
April 19th, 2010 at 7:28 pm
@Sandra: It was either going to make people laugh or throw up – glad you got a chuckle from it
April 22nd, 2010 at 12:53 am
I couldn’t resist Steve, I had to send it to my mom. She phoned this morning telling me how much she enjoyed the video. She loved the surprise ending and was still laughing when she called!
Check out Sandra Hendricks´s last blog…You Can If You Think You Can
April 27th, 2010 at 1:24 pm
LOVED IT!!!! Thanks for such a wonderful inspirational message! Cute butt, by the way!!!!!
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April 28th, 2010 at 3:44 pm
@Pam: Lol, you should have seen me in my 20’s ;P
May 10th, 2010 at 6:18 pm
That is SUCH a GREAT video! Besides a great ending, it is so true. If you feel comfortable in your position at work, speak up and take chances. After all, “what the hell?” If you aren’t comfortable at work, apply for that great job out on the market. I was lucky enough to get the awesome position I’m in now, because I thought “what the hell?”. all of those strange ideas that have popped into my head since I’ve been here I’ve bounced off people in power, who ended up backing me on them!! You won’t ever be someone that stands out, unless you speak up. After all, “what the hell?”.
May 10th, 2010 at 7:30 pm
@Leah: Awesome – you’re so right and a prime example of how to say “what the hell” to those seemingly crazy ideas. It’s those crazy ideas that just might bring you the stuff you’re looking for, or it might even change the world
May 10th, 2010 at 11:03 pm
Steve:
I’m not sure how I found your site – it was a link in something else I was reading I think.
This is priceless! I first watched this video a couple of days ago and had to come back to watch again. I laughed the first time, but like someone else said, this time I cried.
You took a risk with your ending. I’ve always been so afraid to take a risk, but I’m not even sure what I’m afraid of. This video made me realize that most of what I’m afraid to risk is really no more serious that your risk.
I’ve wasted soooo much time being afraid. Needlessly!!! I’m going to come back and watch this often. What a powerful message for me! I’m also making myself a little sign to hang by my desk — What the Hell!!!
Thank you so much and I look forward to more inspiration – although I can’t believe you could top this one!
Ruby
Check out Ruby´s last blog…Surprising Motivation News
May 17th, 2010 at 5:51 pm
@Ruby: If my bottom can help you take more risks then it was all worth it
Awesome that you’re inspired to get out there in your own life – will you let me know how you get on?