The Confidence Guy

Wired into Truly Confident Living

Truly Confident Living Home Study Course

Let’s get real for a second. I could say that this will solve all your problems, take inches off your waist, remove firm lines and wrinkles and give you a 5 figure boost to your checking account.  But I’m not going to promise you the Earth or tell you that this will make all your problems vanish. Too many other people are trying that one and I’m as tired as you are of products and services that over-promise and under-deliver.
Steve Errey, The Confidence Guy
Which is why I’ve spent the last 6 years working with hundreds of clients, researching what works and putting together something that’s altogether more real and more useful…

The Truly Confident Living Home Study Course

Showing you how to be naturally confident no matter what life throws at you

So what is this “Truly Confident Living” stuff?

These days there’s a very real pressure for professional women to perform at an incredibly high level and deliver consistently. Nothing wrong with that on the surface and you’re more than capable of doing just that, but I can’t count the number of times I’ve heard my clients say to me “You know, my colleagues and my friends would all describe me as confident, but I don’t feel it“.

Here’s what happens. You focus on what you want at College, you get a good job that pays well and challenges you. You enjoy what you do, get promoted quickly because you’re talented and consistently deliver, you might make a couple of career moves into other organisations with bigger and better prospects. You achieve a hell of a lot in a short space of time.

Then, when you start getting closer to that big 3-0, something interesting happens. You start asking if where you are is what you really want. You start asking just how long you can keep running. You start asking what else there is for you. And importantly, you start asking just who you are underneath all that achievement and success.

Sure, I’m generalising a little here, but let me be really clear – I see this every day when I’m working with clients.

The desire to succeed and deliver is one to be applauded, but only if it means something to the individual who’s putting the hard graft in. Time and time again I’ve worked with women who have achieved great things but who don’t feel it. There’s a transition where the desire to achieve, move forwards and succeed in their field shifts from being a genuine desire into habit – and that’s where the danger is.

That’s where Truly Confident Living comes in. Truly Confident Living is all about:

  • Knowing who you are way down deep and having that feel natural and great
  • Making things easier – removing the struggles and frustrations
  • Giving you the tools to go about your life in a way that means something to you
  • Being ready to try things in a way that works for you
  • Knowing you’ll be just fine and being able to trust yourself – really trust yourself – no matter what happens

What it isn’t about is replacing who you are with a generic, plastic, perma-smiled version of you.  Gah, the thought turns my stomach.  In fact it’s exactly the opposite — we need more genuine and genuinely confident people.

I’ve seen a lack of inner confidence hold people back in all kinds of ways – both professionally and personally. Too many women end up being scared of failing, scared of succeeding, scared of what people think of them, scared of screwing up or scared of someone realising they’re just a regular gal.

Newsflash #1. It’s okay to be yourself. You’re plenty good enough.
Newsflash #2. That’s the only way you’ll get real success that means something to you.

So…forget about having to be a ‘Type-A’ personality to succeed in your professional or personal life. Forget about being ‘grown-up’, having to always do the ‘right’ thing or even being ‘professional’. Forget about presenting an air of confidence to the world when you don’t really feel it, and you can forget about having to control everything too…

Instead, how about a proven, fluff-free method to live a Truly Confident Life?

Why this means everything to me…

Not having the kind of self-confidence you know full well you can have just plain sucks. I know full well.

Back in 2001, my self-confidence was rock bottom. Lower than rock bottom, in fact. I had no self-confidence at all. I was on long term sick leave for stress and depression and was made redundant from my high-flying job because I wasn’t around. I was medicated, undergoing psychiatry and completely lost.

It took some serious effort to build myself back up, piece by piece. Bit by bit, I started to find the confidence to make some important choices that brought me to where I am today, and I don’t regret any of it.

That’s why I’m so passionate about Truly Confident Living.

I’ve seen the difference it continues to make in my life, and I just love seeing those results in the people I work with. Seeing people become Truly Confident is what I love doing, and – if I can blow my own trumpet for second – I’m really good at it.

Many of the principles and strategies I used personally are those that I use with my clients today, and over the years I’ve worked with hundreds of professional women to find genuine inner confidence. I’ve seen what’s worked best and refined, developed and tuned the Truly Confident Living process to make sure it all works as it’s supposed to.

Here’s what just a handful have to say:

I find life so much easier

Karen Jacobsen
in NYC

I didn’t expect so much to open up

Christine Laidlaw
in Scotland

I am definitely more confident now

“I don’t let things worry and bother me as much as I did…and I’ve learned things that will make a real difference to me. Being able to read the notes and then listen to the audio really worked for me, and I also like Steve’s relaxed, friendly tone on the audio – very reassuring.”
Agnes Costa-Correa in London

A unique practical experience

“I’ve had a few ‘AHA’ moments and now that I see my confidence as a much more natural thing I don’t catch myself saying ‘Come on, be more confident!’ anymore! It’s been a unique practical experience which will benefit me long after it’s finished.”
Joseph Quinn in Auckland, NZ

I’ve learned to have fun again

“It feels like someone has turned the lights back on. I feel more alive than I have done in a long time and I’ve learned to relax and have fun again. I’m strong, confident, vibrant, alive and I refuse to let myself forget that again.”
Stephanie Favell in Norfolk

A great opportunity to drive life

“It’s been very successful, enjoyable and empowering. As self indulgent as a block of chocolate but without the calories. Safe, secure & respectful, and a great opportunity to really drive life rather than be a passenger.”
Wendy Paroissien in Oxfordshire

There are so many myths thrown around about self-confidence, success and self-esteem, and my approach debunks many of these. I prefer a proven, fluff-free approach that works in the real world. It’s not about appearing to be confident, faking it ’til you make it or being able to stand in a room and deliver a great presentation. It’s altogether more personal, graceful and powerful than that.

What can I expect to be doing in the course…?

I’ve packed everything I can into the Course and broken it down into short, bite-sized chunks. There are 4 sections each lasting 2 weeks.

Weeks 1-2

The 1st 2 weeks of the course have everything you need to dive right in and start seeing things happen. Here’s what you’ll be doing:

  • You’ll get to know the 5 Principles of Self-Confidence and how they impact you. These are the rules of self-confidence that – for better or worse – determine how confident you feel
  • You’ll know how to apply the 5 Principles of Self-Confidence to your own life
  • You’ll have figured out what confidence really means to you and how it impacts you
  • You’ll have a clear idea of success that’s based on what really matters to you, not what you think ought to matter to you
  • You’ll learn about how your brain works at its best, and how you can use the way your brain is naturally wired to get great results
  • You’ll understand what you have that you can always count on – the things you can have absolute confidence in
  • You’ll be clear on how you can plug into your self-confidence to keep it high for the long-term
  • You’ll know how to use what’s most important to you to add hugely to your self-confidence

Weeks 3-4

This is where the rubber really hits the road. In weeks 3 and 4 you’ll start digging deep and learning more about how your confidence works. You’ll also be using what you’ve learned so far to get out there in your life to build your inner confidence.

  • You’ll figure out what your natural talents and strengths are – the things that aren’t going anywhere that will get you great results.
  • You’ll see exactly where you’re selling yourself short and not giving yourself credit
  • You’ll identify specific strategies and actions that will improve your self-confidence
  • You’ll clearly recognise the things in your life that pick away at your self-confidence, and employ strategies to remove them
  • You’ll identify the things that make your life more difficult than it needs to be and the things that divert you away from being you
  • You’ll have strategies in place to deal with those pesky (or sometimes damaging) things that frustrate you, drain you or make you feel less than
  • You’ll learn about how some people just don’t get it, and strategies for dealing with difficult people.
  • You’ll be okay taking more chances and grabbing more opportunities

Weeks 5-6

By now you’ve built up some real momentum and you’re already seeing results with your inner confidence. Weeks 5 and 6 dig even deeper, and you’ll learn some of the most important things about you that you can ever know.

  • You’ll spot the tricks your brain uses to keep your confidence low in certain areas, and you’ll know why your brain does that.
  • You’ll have strategies for managing that voice in your head that puts you down, fuels your doubts and tells you that you can’t have, don’t want or aren’t good enough to get what you want.
  • You’ll see why it is that you sometimes lose yourself in the middle of everything that’s going on, and you’ll have strategies for filling your life with the things that make you feel like you again.
  • You’ll know the roles you play in your life and how they impact your level of confidence.
  • You’ll have thrown away the old rulebook you’ve been living your life by – the rules that may well be damaging your sense of self and holding you back.
  • You’ll know what to add into your life to fuel your self-confidence for the long term
  • You’ll know which pieces of your environment to change for a truly confident life, and you’ll know how to change them
  • You’ll see where you’ve been living your life based on other peoples’ expectations of you, not your expectations of you

Weeks 7-8

The home straight. By now you’ve accomplished a heck of a lot, and the final 2 weeks gives you more tools and strategies and wraps things up neatly so you can keep going with everything you’ve learned and achieved.

  • You’ll see where you’ve been living your life based on other peoples’ expectations of you, not your expectations of you
  • You’ll see how some of your expectations might be hurting your self-confidence and you’ll know exactly how to shift damaging and unrealistic expectations to make it easier to get the things you want
  • You’ll understand how the patterns of behaviour you adopt in different situations impact your self-esteem and self-confidence.
  • You’ll have new patterns of thought and behaviour that free you up from frustration – new ways of doing things that fit you better.
  • You’ll have a powerful technique for switching on your confidence in those times when you need that extra burst
  • You’ll have gotten in touch with a powerful part of yourself that’s like a new best friend and will always add your confidence

And there’s a whole load more that you’ll learn from the course too, with too many tips, ideas and strategies to list in detail here.

Secure payment facilities provided through Paypal and e-Junkie

Once your payment is approved, you’ll be taken to a special download page where you will receive the audios and downloads.

What’s in the course?

I’ve packed everything I can into the course. You get::

> The 8-week course containing 16 exercises. That’s over 120 pages of advice, strategies and exercises so that you can apply the Truly Confidence Living method to your own life.

The course is broken down into 4, 2-week long sections, with each section broken down into bite-sized chunks. Each section has a downloadable document taking you through every step.

> A total of over 7 hours of audio, broken down into quick segments that you can stream directly from the site or download to your computer or MP3 player.

The audio introduces you to each section and walks you through each exercise, giving you examples and making the exercises come to life in a way that just reading a book can’t match.

> A set of ’scorecards’ – an ingeniously simple way of keeping track of your progress – allowing you to measure how you’re doing and the results that you’re seeing, as well as making sure you’re following through with the exercises.

> Bonus 1. The 5 Principles of Self-Confidence.

These are the the central ‘laws’ that – for better or worse – determine your level of self-confidence.

You get easily understandable explanations of how the Principles work, exercises so that you can apply each Principle to your own life and 45 minutes of audio where I talk you through everything step by step.

> Bonus 2. The 7 Biggest Self-Confidence Mistakes and How to Fix Them.

This PDF and 40 minute audio walks you through the most common mistakes I see people make with their self-confidence, what you can do about them and, most importantly, how you can fix them.

> Bonus 3. I’ll throw in my free ezine, ‘Being More’, which contains all kind of tips, advice and strategies for getting more out of life and being more ‘You’. It goes out every two weeks and is read by thousands of people right around the world.

I’ve tweaked and tuned every part of the course to make sure that this is the closest thing to a 1-to-1 coaching programme that I can offer. That makes it a heck of a lot easier for you to get real results.

Who this course is for…

The Truly Confident Living Home Study Course is perfect for you, if:

  • You’re a “self starter”. Everyone has periods where they just don’t feel like doing anything. That’s okay, and that’s why I’ve provided the audio and scorecards. But, you’ll only see results if you follow the course and put the effort in.
  • You’ve proven that you’re capable because of the successes you’ve already seen. Chances are you’ve had good success in college and progressed rapidly in your career. You might not recognise all the successes you’ve had, but the proof is there all the same.
  • You’re perceptive and not scared to poke into some of those darker corners of your brain or your behaviour. The course encourages you to get to know yourself really well – the good parts and the not-so-good parts. It’s that self-awareness that leads to results, and that’s something you fundamentally ‘get’.
  • You’re fun. Okay, so you’re probably not on the stand-up circuit, but you’re playful and light-hearted. Yes, this course is a serious way to grow your self-confidence and live a Truly Confident Life, but life isn’t all serious. I want you to enjoy the course, so make doing it a blast for you and you’ll be sure to get more from it.

Okay Steve, How Much?

I’ve had great feedback on the course, and people who’ve gone through it have told me they’d pay over $1000 for it. But because I want to make the benefits the course brings readily available I’m offering it at a price of just $127.

That’s it – you get all 16 exercises, over 7 hours of audio, the 5 Principles of Self-Confidence (with accompanying audio), the 7 Biggest Self-Confidence Mistakes and How to Fix Them (with accompanying audio), Scorecards to measure your progress every step of the way and make sure you’re getting everything you can from the course, and my free ezine, ‘Being More’ containing regular advice and strategies for getting more out of your life.

You get instant access to all of that for just $127.

The “Freedom” Guarantee

I know that the exercises, strategies and tips in the Truly Confident Living Home Study Course work, because I’ve used them with my 1-to-1 clients to get real-world results.

I know that you’ll learn heaps about your self-confidence, how it works and what’s held it back and that you’ll feel more confident as a result. Follow the course and see the results, and if you aren’t 100% happy with your decision to take the course you can have an immediate, full refund of every penny you paid. You have real Freedom to try it out.

Secure payment facilities provided through Paypal and e-Junkie

Once your payment is approved, you’ll be taken to a special download page where you will receive the audios and downloads.

Have fun, learn lots

Steve

P.S. Chances are you haven’t read all of that so I’ll cut right to the chase. This is the new, updated Truly Confident Living Home Study Course – the only place to get proven tips and strategies to build true inner confidence, based on what’s worked with real people.

Remember, your purchase is 100% guaranteed. Either you love it, or send it back for a full refund.